Monday, February 19, 2024

Valentines and Ashes!

 Ash Wednesday!


Prayer

                                                                   I Cor. 13:1-13

First Movement:                               

            I thought as I prepared this, in 37 years of pastoral ministry, I recollect that Ash Wednesday has only fallen on Valentine’s Day one other time that I remember, and that was in 2018.  Now, as I research,  I learn that it hasn’t happened prior to 2018 since 1940 something; it has only happened twice in my lifetime!  What do you do when Valentine’s Day falls on Ash Wednesday?  How do you reconcile a day celebrating love and romance with one of sacrifice and somber repentance?

 

Second Movement:

            Let’s look at a little history.   

“Stories of the origin of St. Valentine’s Day frequently include accounts of the martyrdom of a priest named Valentinus or Valentine. Roman emperor Claudius II had nullified engagements and banned new marriages in order to increase the size of his army. Valentine defied the ban and continued marrying couples until he was discovered and killed on Feb. 14, 270 A.D.

Another priest, also named Valentine, was also martyred on Feb. 14, in a different year for helping imprisoned Christians. In some traditions, he may have healed his jailer’s daughter before being martyred. In others, he and the jailer’s daughter fell in love — before he was executed. In any case, the idea of risk and martyrdom for the sake of honorable love replaced a more ancient Roman festival with a new name, purpose and a feast day on the church calendar.

Centuries later, Chaucer and Shakespeare romanticized St. Valentine’s Day. Sweethearts began exchanging love notes on Feb. 14, in medieval times.”[i]

            Ash Wednesday is about remembering our sins that caused Christ to have to die.  It is about sacrificing something to draw closer to God because of God’s sacrificial love for us.  It is about sacrificial love! 

 

Third Movement:

            Our scripture tonight, is about love, a love that never fails.  God’s love never fails; it is always there for us, but sometimes our love fails.  This scripture describes love perfectly.  I can preach, I can do all kinds of works, but if I have not love,  I am nothing!  Love is patient!  How many of us lack patience?  Love is kind!  How many of us are always kind?  Love is not envious, boastful, or arrogant!  How many of us are boastful or envious or arrogant?  Love is not rude!  Wow, how many have never been rude?  Love doesn’t always want its own way!  How are you scoring so far?  Love is not irritable or resentful! 

            On the other hand, Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things!  These are all positive ways to respond!  These all respresent being a light shining in the darkness!  How many of us are always that?  How did you score?

            Traditionally during Lent, which begins today and includes the 40 days between now and Easter (not counting Sundays which are always little celebrations of the resurrection), people do without something or add something to their practices so that they can draw closer to God, so that they can grow in love.  It is about sacrificial love of our time for one who has sacrificed so much for us!  On Ash Wednesday, we realize our need of forgiveness and our need to draw closer to God through this time of Lent.  As you are marked with the sign of the cross tonight, remember the sacrificial love of God as God went all the way to the cross for you!  Remember how far short we fall of what we should be and how far short we fall of that love, and commit during Lent, because of your love for God and people, to make some sacrifices yourself to draw closer to God and to draw closer to what you should be in service of God in the world.  Amen!



[i] “Love and Repentance: When Ash Wednesday Falls on Valentine’s Day” by Polly House; www.umcom.org

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